Testimonials
The Hall Recovery Course has been running for over six years and has an established track record of success. Here is what some previous course members have said:
After 7 years of trying to over come my sex addiction and failing I turned to group therapy, even though it was daunting for the first few weeks these sessions opened my mind and allowed me to value the important things in this world my wife, children and quality of life. The group sessions make you realise you are not the only one with this addiction and provide a support network which is not available on a one to one basis. Things are going well for me, thank you.
Group work for me provided one of the key elements necessary for recovery. It does this by deepening understanding of the addiction cycle, providing a broad overview of the underlying psychological issues that feed unhealthy sexual desires, giving specific strategies for long term sobriety and teaching life skills that many addicts have failed to gain in the formative teenage years. It also importantly addresses problems concerning shame, guilt and isolation by encouraging relationships to develop over time with other members of the group-many of which have surprisingly been through exactly the same disastrous consequences of this addiction. Many months after i completed the course, i find that i am constantly practising the techniques that i learnt. Paula's insight, wisdom, dedication and enthusiasm is invaluable. For me, completing a course is not just recommended, it is necessary for preventing relapse and for leading a healthy and productive life full of rewarding relationships once again.
Having tried one-to-one therapy on a number of occasions without long term success I found out about Paula's group therapy and decided to set aside my initial reservations about discussing my problem with others. This undoubtedly proved to be one of the best decisions of my life and the cohesiveness of our group has provided invaluable support to me in my recovery, which as I write, is in its sixteenth month. Group therapy allows you to contribute to, and benefit from, a valuable long term support network of people who truly understand the nature of sex addiction.
The group really gave me some hope just as my life was falling apart when my wife discovered the truth about my sexually compulsive behaviour. Being able to talk with others in a safe and non judgemental environment was the first step to addiction recovery and a new outlook on life. From what we learned on the programme I started to be able to make some sense of my crazy lifestyle and to work with others on the group on practical strategies for healthy living. Working with the group also enabled me to demonstrate to my wife and others close to me that I was serious about recovery. Ongoing mutual support between those I met on the programme builds confidence and helps to ensure that I stay committed to the promises I have made to myself and those I hold dear to live a life with nothing to hide.
The course has helped me understand the reasons, motivations and behaviour that underlie the pursuit of a secret life. With this understanding comes choice, conviction, self esteem and the strength to make a different life. I would recommend this course for anyone dealing with depression motivated behavioural addiction.
Having gained an understanding of my sexual behaviour I am much stronger in controlling my previous ‘acting out’ and also I have gained knowledge of recovery in relationships.